輔導及就業綜合服務

婚前輔導

Premarital Counseling

許多人對婚姻有著很多美麗浪漫的憧憬,認為愛情最重要,其他問題都是小事,甚至相信婚前未處理好的問題,婚後一切問題都會迎刃而解,無須煩惱。這是現代人對婚姻的謎思,這些不正確的信念容易使人對婚姻有不實的期待,也會阻礙兩性的溝通和互動,最後導致不健康婚姻的出現。家社是社會的基石,我們相信有足夠的婚前預備和持續的婚姻更新與成長,將有助我們建立正向的人生及健康的家庭,為社會帶來更多愛的能量和正面的影響。
 
婚前輔導主要是協助準新人瞭解婚姻的真貌,探索原生家庭對未來婚姻的影響、建立愛與溝通、學習姻親相處等; 從而未雨綢繆,建立美滿婚姻。
 
A large number of people see marriage through rose-colored glasses, thinking love is the absolute importance while other problems are ignored or minimized. Many also believe that the problems they had before marriage will automatically subside after marriage, having no intention to solve or improve – such is the common misconception about marriage nowadays. Unfortunately, this misunderstood idea of marriage leads us to unrealistic expectations about each other and the relationship itself, as well as preventing an effective communication and interaction between two partners, resulting in the birth of an unhealthy marriage. Family is the cornerstone of our society. We believe that with enough premarital preparation and continuous improvement and growth throughout the marriage, a positive life path and a healthy family can be attained, which in turns bring about more love and positivity into our society.

The main goals of premarital counseling is to assist the soon-to-be married couple to learn more about the realistic views of marriage, explore and understand how their family-of-origin may influence their future marriage, develop and cultivate love and communication, and how to get along in a marriage.
 
節數Session 主題Theme 內容Content
1 相識.相惜
Meeting, Falling in love
相戀至結合的心路
Psychological journey from falling in love to marriage
* 關係評估
Relationship Analysis
填寫 Prepare / Enrich 評估問卷(*可選擇於家中填寫)
Fill in PREPARE-ENRICH assessment (*done at home online)
2 婚姻的迷思
Marriage Expectations
對婚禮籌備/ 未來婚姻與家庭的寄望
Wedding ceremony, banquet & planning/ expectations on marriage and family   
3 情牽兩代心
Generational influences
原生家庭對成長的影響
Family-of-origin and its influence on personal development
4 知彼知己
Getting to Know Each Other
探討兩人性格的相異之處
Exploring the differences in personality
5 愛與溝通
Love and Communication
同感心:聆聽與表達
Empathy: active listening and expressing
6 未雨綢繆
Proactive Preparation    
親密關係/ 財務處理/ 生兒育女/ 姻親相處/ 時間管理
Intimate relationship/ financial responsibility/ children & parenting/ getting along with each other/ time management
   
 

服務收費Service Fees

* 輔導費用已包含 Prepare / Enrich Inventory 關係評估費用(由生命與啟迪培訓公司收取)。
整套婚前輔導包括六次(每節75分鐘)面談及一次PREPARE / ENRICH婚前/婚姻關係評估(附帶一份分析結果報告予每對伴侶)。

*Counseling fees include: PREPARE/ENRICH inventory assessment (collected by Life & Marriage Enrichment Ltd.).
The pre-marital counseling package comes with 6 face-to-face sessions (75 minutes per session) and the analysis and reporting of the PREPARE/ENRICH inventory assessment by your counselor/ therapist (Each partner will receive a copy of the assessment report).

 

最新優惠 Promotion

經灣仔教會互助網轉介可獲9折優惠;其他區教會亦可獲95折優惠。
10% discount is granted for clients with referrals from Wan Chai Methodist. 5% discount from other churches.
 

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2520-4933 / 2520-4955
 

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